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    Re: Would You Reply?

    I agree that he didn't say anything like I feel bad we lost touch but I guess I don't know if I think that is an indication he didn't think he did anything wrong. If this had been a girl, it would have turned me off to it but knowing it's Brian and how long I've known him, this is how he is. I have to give him credit for even trying to find me, I'm virtually impossible to locate online unless he remembered my parents name and would have called them. He's always been the one to come to me first when we've fought in the past.

    I guess if *I* did something wrong and wanted to contact the person I wronged, I'm not sure if I would have done anything differently than he did. I might have said something like "It sure has been a long time, we should really talk."
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    Re: Would You Reply?

    Quote Originally Posted by jillybean View Post
    I agree that he didn't say anything like I feel bad we lost touch but I guess I don't know if I think that is an indication he didn't think he did anything wrong. If this had been a girl, it would have turned me off to it but knowing it's Brian and how long I've known him, this is how he is. I have to give him credit for even trying to find me, I'm virtually impossible to locate online unless he remembered my parents name and would have called them. He's always been the one to come to me first when we've fought in the past.
    I guess if *I* did something wrong and wanted to contact the person I wronged, I'm not sure if I would have done anything differently than he did. I might have said something like "It sure has been a long time, we should really talk."

    But honey, what I am afraid of is that you are saying that "That is just how Brian is" which means, he hasn't much changed. If he really wanted to make things right, he would humble himself, swallow that pride and PROVE it.

    I know, it's TERRIBLE to miss someone you really loved, but...this is a bad feeling here, that's all.

    I know it's a bad spot to be in. If you are going to try again, just prepare for the worst and hope for the best. Too many stings can make you VERY sensitive, too tough, or...smart.
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    Re: Would You Reply?

    I didn't mean 'this is just the way he is' as a bad thing. We've always been able to get through stuff but we had just hit a point where there was nothing else left to say and once we were adults in the real world, so many things change. We weren't in college anymore, we had real jobs, we moved, etc. Life just got in the way.

    I totally understand what you are saying, though. I don't want to get hurt again but if I go in with no expectations (should I decide to respond), all I have to do is block him again.

    Definitely something to keep thinking about, though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Torchwood Fan
    I thought Dude had brought back an old thread. My bad.
    Ah man!!

    Nothing wrong with that my friend

    I really wish you the best of luck Jillybean!!

    God bless you

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